Taking the First Steps
If you live in the parish (check here). If you don’t live in the parish then we may still be able to help. Below is shown the process you will go through set out in six steps.
1st step The best way to start is to come to one of our 10.30am Sunday Serices. You will be made very welcome and you’ll be able to meet members of the church. Children are welcome here and we don’t worry too much about the noise they make or if you have to slip out to ‘make them more comfortable’!
2nd step You will be asked to visit the Vicar and speak to him so that he can get to know you and discuss the preparation.
3rd step We invite you to have a "Thanksgiving" for your child. Thanksgivings take place at the 10.30am Sunday Service by arrangement with the Vicar and during it we thank God for the gift of the child.
4th step After the 'Thanksgiving' we arrange for the Baptism Preparation evenings when we explain all about the Baptism Service and what it means.
5th step Baptism Services usually takes place on the last Sunday of the month at a special service at 12 noon. We do this for your convenience and ours. However, we can't complete the Baptism at this service because the last part involves the regular congregation. So, the following week, we have the 6th step.
6th step The "Welcome" takes place when you return with your child to our 10.30am service the following week. This is when the congregation welcomes your child into the family of the church. It is at this service that you receive the Baptism Certificate which you should keep in a safe place. We also give a special present your child.
Even that's not the end, because being baptised is just the beginning of a life of being a disciple of Jesus. We hope you’ll let us help you to help them to grow in faith.
Reasons why some people bring their children for Baptism.
There are many reasons why parents want their children baptised and one or more of these may be in your mind.
Let's take a pretend example of Sharon who wants her son, Henry, to be Baptised:-
To give him his name properly.
- Children are properly named when their birth is registered.
To make sure he keeps well.
- Baptism is not a health insurance policy.
Because Sharon’s mother is nagging her to have him done.
- Henry’s parents must give him his Christian upbringing. It is their faith which will count, so they must decide - whatever other people think.
To make sure he will go to heaven if he dies young.
- God doesn’t judge children differently just because one has been through the Service of Baptism and another has not.
So that he can be married in Church.
- Nowadays you don’t have to have been baptised to be married in Church - though at least one of the couple ought to be a Christian believer.
To give him a good start in life.
- Yes, but this must continue with a Christian upbringing otherwise it is the start of nothing and the baptism is pointless.
What is Baptism?
In the early days of the Christian Church, when people became Christians and became members of the Church, they were baptised. They wanted to make a complete break with the past and their previous way of living and show that they intended to live in a new way.
Baptism meant two things. It was like death by drowning! Death, that is, to everything sinful and selfish in their lives. It was also like being made clean. It was a sign that the Spirit of God had come into their life, to bring forgiveness and new life. It soon became normal for Christian parents to want their children baptised.
At ‘Infant Baptism’ the responsibility is placed on the parents and God-parents who have to make certain statements and make certain promises. Those who bring children for Baptism are required to say that they turn away from everything that is wrong and that they believe and trust in Jesus Christ as their Saviour and Lord. They promise to bring their children up to follow Christ and be members of the Church, bringing them to the church to be prepared for "Confirmation" when they will be able to take on these responsibilities for themselves.
Some parents, even regular members of the congregation, decide not to go through with baptism after they have experienced the "Thanksgiving" so that the child can ‘decide for themselves’ at a later date and experience baptism for themselves.
If you have not been baptised then we can make sure that you have the opportunity to attend a group to learn all about the basics of the Christian Faith in preparation for Baptism.
Please be assured that we would be pleased to help you and talk with you "without obligation", as they say!
Contact the Vicar (Click here to email). He'll be pleased to explain or help as necessary